Reasons why your husband distance himself from you.
There are a lot of reasons our partner distance therself from us, often we think our partner is cheating ,or having affairs with someone else, perhaps we might think it’s about sex aspect of relationship. Definitely, it’s because you are lifting all the burden on him. It’s true that it’s the responsibility of the hubby to finance the family. When you consciously or unconsciously and tactically, exclude yourself from assisting your partner in the aspect of finance. With this type of habit, it’s glaring that he will absolutely distance himself from you. In a nutshell it’s also the responsibility, of the wife to assist his partner financially. For the men when you are still fully I’m charge of your responsibility, never see your wife as someone that can’t also help situations. Never feel proud by uttering word that it’s your money you work for it you can spend it anyhow.
Who ever can tell table may turn, so in that aspect you perhaps, might not have a say when things turn around. And for those that think it’s the responsibility of the man to provide financially. Never expect a situation whereby the will want suggestion from you about finance. Moreover it’s leads to unbalance relationship in the aspect in which the man is the only one providing for the needs of the family it may leads to nagging and a kind of financial insecurity in your relationship.
Another reason why your partner distance himself from you is relating your story to your friends or family this is applicable to both party. Actually, it’s believe that two is party while there is a crowd.
It’s not bad telling your friends your story, but, it’s advisable to call your partner to attention, in other to protect your relationships, whoever can tell that those your friends that you are relating your story to don’t really want you two together. The best is to consult counsellor if you are at any point facing challenges in your relationships.
I don’t buy the idea, of consulting pastors, Alfa, etc. You can visit any one that you trust, this people might be adding salt into your wounds. You only need to be careful and shine your eyes, if at all you want to consult them for advise.
Not trusting your partner: it’s obvious, that some people don’t trust there partner. Your partner perhaps, might not be doing what you are thinking, accusing him wrongly, is like you chaisng him away.
You might be thinking negatively about your partner, once you start developing this type of thought, your partner might start cheating, once you don’t trust him. Trust is fundamental in other to have a healthy marriage or relationship.
When you think your partner reads your mind, perhaps, he should know what on your mind, when having the mindset that your partner should point out what’s bothering, through your mind. Your partner is not God, so he can’t know what’s bothering you. And you don’t expect him to read your mind. Some psychologist, can’t even do that.
Your partner will distance himself from you due to the fact that, you don’t take care of yourself.
Why shouldn’t you take care of yourself? Some women will feel like who is looking at me?
Dress to kill your partner common!.
Dress neat and dress to kill, during weekends when you and your partner are at home, play gist, sex chat, do naughty things, let him know your weaken point, some are like why will I tell him all this? I don’t need it, you need it, share your sexual orgasm with him. Tell him how to satisfy you sexually, he is your husband.
This is simple things you need to understand yourself, in other to make your partner stop and focus more on you rather than distancing himself from you.
Let’s keep talking love!!!